While I was in a meeting in Denver, my phone flashed “motion detected” in the living room – I pulled up the camera and saw my parents bringing a contractor to measure the glass garden wall, talking about moving my golden-boy brother in for good: “She won’t dare make a scene, she’ll just accept it” – three hours later, on the flight back to Seattle, I opened my laptop, created a $115,000 “debt ledger” and got ready to give the whole family a livestream no one would be able to laugh through.
I was a thousand miles away in Denver, sitting in a glass-walled conference room lined with miniature American flags stuck…